Men must stop pretending to be what we are not; what you are really doing is pretending to be God for a woman. That is why you always end-up disappointing her; you have fallen into the idea of putting on that mask of perfection as you yourself set yourself up to be someone you will never be able to be, pretend to do what you will never be able to do and pretend to give what you will never be able to attain. Why? Because, only God can be all that woman wants you to be, only God can do all that woman wants you to do and only God can give that woman all she wants and more. These statements do not take anything away from the Biblical responsibilities of a wife or a husband, but are designed to take away unrealistic expectations that can only be fulfilled by God. He is God and we are not. I heard a lady saying: “My next man must walk on water, raise the dead, etc, etc.” I said to, myself, “This lady may never see her next man.”
God demands for His people to love Him above all things; He demands to be first in our lives. Why? Because, only He can take that position without disappointing. Only God is able to deliver! Only God carries that authority; anyone else that dares to take that place in our lives will, for sure be, a massive disappointment.