"But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:" 1 Peter 3:15 (KJV)
"But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:" 1 Peter 3:15 (KJV)
Mr. Casiano, I met a Christian widower who is raising a daughter who participates in allstar cheerleading. We now argue about the activity because i see it as inappropriately sexual and he insists im being too hard on it. We finally reached the “she’s my daughter” point in the conversation and now im in the cold. My problem is how i can trust this man to be the leader of our household if he can’t enforce our beliefs on this seemingly simple topic of NO CHEERLEADING if we have children of our own? I read your archive about being the leader of a rebellious household and thought you might offer insight as the head of a Christian home. Thank you.
Leesa
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Hey Leesa, thank you for taking the time to visit our blog. I assume that you guys are not marry yet. We, as a society have move so far away from holiness that we can’t see simple things. I have four daughters, from 12 to 18 and this is a hard struggle because they see their peers and the attention they get. They even see their teachers and female coaches dress in ways that are obviously unacceptable. We see the same thing in our churches. My daughters love to sings and dance and it is a struggle to make them understand this issue of holiness. But I don’t give up and I back it up with truth; I tried to do it with as much love as I can, but I don’t compromise. I tell them that when they are on there own if they want to rebel against my teachings they will have a chance. But I leave them no excuse; they know better. In your case, if you are not married to this man yet; you may want to pray, because this issue will get worst in marriage. Some times parents let their children do whatever they want because they like to see them happy; it is a demonic trap. The reality is that cheerleaders dance to some songs that are not Godly, their clothing is provocative and some of their moves are sexual. It is our struggle with the world and the things of this world.But as for me and my house… God bless you sister. My email address in angelcasiano@aol.com
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